F18 mad crush on dads friend

So I have been gossiping about this with friends but ido what happened but in the last month like a mad crush for him hit me and one other friend like a freight train lol.

We can’t tell if he knows but now like I gets long hugs where he picks me uo hands on thighs and everything bjt 🤪. Once during movie night I sat on his lap with a blanket and it was a belly rub and thigh massage for hours.

I think that begs the larger question why recently have me and friends gotten this older guys are hot phase like what’s up with that.