If you want to be with me, you've got to blow him

My husband (m50) and I (f50) love to explore, and every so often, he shares me, or we swap with the right couple. But here’s the real fantasy... I want to be earned.  

One of the hottest ways I can think of? A straight(ish) man going down on my husband because he wants me so badly. Especially if it’s his first time - doing it not because he’s into it, but because he wants me. If he wants to fuck me, he's got to blow my husband. Knowing he’s stepping outside his comfort zone just for a chance with me? It's a total turn-on.

Even hotter? If his wife or girlfriend is there, watching him go down for the first time. And maybe she is part of the price for me. My husband gets her as part of the deal, or we both do.

Her eyes on him while he works for it, maybe turned on, maybe surprised, mabe lustful (like me), but letting it happen. Maybe we play as he works it. And then when my husband has had his fill.... he can enjoy her (and me too) while the other man watches or acts as helper. Then and only then can he have me as a reward.

God this turns me on.